This is one day that, frankly, I dread. Not because I feel unloved, far from it, but the truth is that no handsome or otherwise looking man sends flowers and chocolates to me, nor I to them. As a single woman, you learn to avoid some traps like Valentine's Day but this year was quite different. On Valentine's eve, I joined with these women, (l-r) Juliet, Dorothy, Jansi and Connie for a Valentine lunch for single women. It was a well planned event with special touches and this was all the more remarkable because it was held for women, most of whom are very poor. I was one of the speakers and I shared my guidelines for living a happily single life. I loved hearing the other women speakers, all four of whom are Bible College students preparing for ministry. Dorothy is from Malawi and her smiling face is a reflection of the joy she feels after being what she described herself as a 'bad girl" and finding the transforming love of Jesus Christ. I left there with chocolates and gifts, but even more, the joy of being with women who know how much we are loved by Christ. That luncheon was the start of my Valentine celebrations. On Sunday evening I attended a dinner at church and again celebrated with all who were there the love we have for each other in the Body of Christ and the greatest love of all from the One who gave His life for us. Yes I had a great Valentine's day and I hope you did too. And remember, every day is special because we are loved. And yes, I am still praying and looking for you know who!
This blog is about the work Wendy Ryan does with women who live with HIV and AIDS in cape Town, South Africa and her experiences with them and the country.
Monday, February 15, 2010
A wodnerful Valentine's Weekend
This is one day that, frankly, I dread. Not because I feel unloved, far from it, but the truth is that no handsome or otherwise looking man sends flowers and chocolates to me, nor I to them. As a single woman, you learn to avoid some traps like Valentine's Day but this year was quite different. On Valentine's eve, I joined with these women, (l-r) Juliet, Dorothy, Jansi and Connie for a Valentine lunch for single women. It was a well planned event with special touches and this was all the more remarkable because it was held for women, most of whom are very poor. I was one of the speakers and I shared my guidelines for living a happily single life. I loved hearing the other women speakers, all four of whom are Bible College students preparing for ministry. Dorothy is from Malawi and her smiling face is a reflection of the joy she feels after being what she described herself as a 'bad girl" and finding the transforming love of Jesus Christ. I left there with chocolates and gifts, but even more, the joy of being with women who know how much we are loved by Christ. That luncheon was the start of my Valentine celebrations. On Sunday evening I attended a dinner at church and again celebrated with all who were there the love we have for each other in the Body of Christ and the greatest love of all from the One who gave His life for us. Yes I had a great Valentine's day and I hope you did too. And remember, every day is special because we are loved. And yes, I am still praying and looking for you know who!
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